Cunnilingus: A How To Guide

By Arabella Fox

In the wake of my last post about how to give (and receive) a great blowjob, a lot of male readers have requested a similar guide for cunnilingus.

Carpet munching, muff diving, lip service: whatever you want to call it, cunnilingus is without doubt one of the more mysterious and intimidating sex acts. Yet when done properly, it’s the one that women appreciate above all else – and it can be a huge turn on for men as well!

Here are my top tips to get you ‘dining at the Y’ like a pro in no time:

Be Hair Prepared

Most ladies these days are clean-shaven and the last thing you want to be doing is rubbing a spiky, stubbly face all over her most sensitive body parts! Be sure to shave or else let your beard grow a little longer and softer before munching on her peach. Likewise if she has a lot of pubic hair it can be difficult to see what you’re doing so perhaps suggest a double shave date in advance 😉

Don’t Rush In

You know what they say about women and foreplay… we love it, and we need it! So please give her time to get warmed up before you don the snorkel and go diving down there. Kiss, touch and slowly make your way south, stroke her inner thighs and brush your lips over her as light as a feather. She should be breathing heavily and pushing her hips towards you before you go anywhere near her labia!

Start Slowly

Part her lips with a finger or your tongue and start with some long, slow licks from her vagina all the way up to her clitoris. This gives you time to gauge what she likes and how sensitive she is, as all women are different.

The Main Course

Once you get her warmed up you can focus your attention on the clitoris by licking and even sucking it for a stronger sensation. You may have heard the old stories about writing the alphabet with your tongue… well I am sorry boys, but this is an urban myth and should be ignored!! If your lady takes a while to orgasm you may experience the dreaded tongue fatigue – try using a variety of strokes, directions, pressures and speeds to keep it interesting and find a rhythm she likes.

A word of warning though: once you feel her getting close to orgasm, variety is NOT your friend! Just keep doing what you’re doing until you bring her to climax…if you start changing it up you could set yourself back several minutes.

Don’t Be Shy

Don’t be afraid to get your face in close, be enthusiastic and let her feel how much you desire her. If you are hesitant or half-hearted, she may assume that you don’t find her attractive… and let me tell you there is no bigger turn off for a woman.

The main thing is to enjoy yourself, communicate and have fun! Happy dining with a Select Sydney Escort 😉