Did Someone say Dominatrix?

By Arabella Fox

I recently blogged about my ‘50 Shades of Grey’ experience, where I played the sweet, submissive sex slave for a dominating client. I’m sure you all found that story quite exciting 😉 But wait boys, there’s more… sometimes I like to swing the other way as well!

One thing I’ve learned during my time as a high class escort in Sydney is that there is no ‘normal’ when it comes to sex. Sure, the majority of my clients like vanilla sex, but let me tell you, there are plenty of kinky men (and women) in our fair city! Whether it’s fantasy role play, cross dressing, fetish, threesomes, or the wonderful world of BDSM, there is a whole world of fun out there!

I love any opportunity to play the ‘domme’ and have had several clients over the past few years who have willingly entered Arabella’s dungeon 😉 Often these are men who are very powerful in their own life, who want to relinquish all control in the bedroom… or sometimes, they can be men who feel disempowered by their job or marriage and desire punishment.

These are two of my most memorable scenes with submissive clients:

Stewart*

Stewart* (name changed) was a hugely successful architect. He was in his mid-40s, unmarried, with a string of high profile girlfriends. But when I arrived at Stewart’s designer pad, all he wanted was to strip down to a red thong and become my human footstool! This was his way of letting go of all the pressure from his daily life.

I would tie a studded collar around his neck and plant my stiletto heels on his back. Sometimes I would read out his magazine reviews and interviews while digging my heels in a little more… this made him pant with excitement. On other days, I led him around by the collar and commanded him to sit and roll over like the dog that he was 😉 This might sound like a weird fetish, but for Stewart, it was the perfect antidote to his high-stress lifestyle.

Marco

Marco was a totally different kettle of fish. He was from a staunch Catholic Italian family, working class, with a bossy wife and five needy kids. He worked 70-hour weeks as a cleaner. His biggest turn on was to place his head between my legs… not to go down on me but simply for me to squeeze his head and neck between my thighs in a position of total domination. I would and tell him what a spineless wimp he was, that he didn’t even have normal desires, and this would make him grow harder. I always wore head to toe black leather for Marco so his face got nice and hot down there 😉

The key for a Sydney escorts in this situation is to be very sensitive to the client’s needs (even if they need you to abuse and humiliate them!) and create a safe place to play together.